where is for family count during the queue phase, this is for family size while the round is in-progress. these are related but slightly different, and the game should support the different permutations:round setting: auto-size/locked fam count
- keep both fam size and count the same (for example: regular pre-planned teams with hard cap)
- let fam count grow, but keep fam size the same (for example: solo gal)
- this requires mid-round family creation
- keep fam count the same, but let fam size grow (for example: pre-planned teams with no cap)
- see auto-add spots
- let both fam count and fam size grow (fully dynamic)
these should probably be broken down into individual tickets